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Navigating friendships as an expat in Bulgaria

Hello everyone,

Moving to Bulgaria reshapes many aspects of life, and friendships are often one of the biggest changes. Whether you're maintaining lifelong bonds back home, building new local relationships, or forming connections with fellow expats, friendship in expatriation comes with its own joys and challenges. We invite you to share your experience to help fellow expats and soon-to-be expats:

Have you found it easy to connect with fellow expats or locals in Bulgaria? Why or why not?

Have you noticed cultural differences in the way people make friends or share personal matters?

Since moving to in Bulgaria, how have your friendships back home evolved? Do you ever feel 鈥渙ut of sync鈥 with friends and family in your home country?

How do you deal with the temporary nature of many expat friendships when people (or you) eventually move on?

Have you changed the way you approach relationships since becoming an expat?

What has been your biggest challenge in building or maintaining friendships in Bulgaria? Any advice to share?

Thank you for your contribution,

Cheryl
海角社区 Team
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You could join the local rakia club in your block. (Sometimes brewed in the basement).


You can then drink your share of the finished product on the local bench with others.

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I tend to steer well clear of foreign residents in real life. We've got plenty of friends here in BG and in other countries..

@JimJ

Why do you steer clear of "foreign residents"?. Even those that have been resident for decades and put down roots etc - you will still reject them?.

@Zooldrool

"Reject" is a strong word. 馃槉


I have a circle of friends whom I've known for a long time, some over 50 years. As you've no doubt noticed, I can be pretty cantankerous, and I do tend to have strong views combined with a disinclination to apply a diplomatic filter when expressing them; many people don't find me to be their cup of tea, and the feeling is usually mutual. I have long ago come to terms with the fact that I'm a relic of a bygone age and that the way I speak (and think) rubs quite a few people up the wrong way, even though I long ago learned to tone it down, albeit begrudgingly.


Candidly, my reference to "foreign residents" was a polite way of saying "Brits". When I encounter native Brits abroad I'm often irresistibly reminded of GBS' observation: "It is impossible for an Englishman to open his mouth without making some other Englishman hate or despise him.". And that's despite me not being an Englishman but nonetheless sounding very much like one! 馃榿


My apologies if this post falls into the category of "Too much information"...

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